JK - thats ok you know. Now don't everyone pounce on me at once and tear me to bits....
Its sort of like the ying & yang thing. If you are too much Yang (black) the only way to go ahead is being ying and vice versa. Say when punching someone. If you extend your hand all the way, you can't go anywhere. But if you hit someone with some retraction at the elbow - thats good. Thats why in Ying and Yang there is a little bit of both. There is a white spot in the black (Ying in Yang) and vice versa.
And its also something all people go through - a homo stage. Some people get over it, some don't. But by going out and saying you need help can be cause for concern. You know.
There is nothing wrong in recognising a beautiful person irrespective of the sex. Guys just don't do it as much because of the stigma attached to it.
I can't wait for the backlash from my comments...
06/06/2006
Only in Memories